Enjoying the Journey

and what a journey it is…

What I’ve been up to lately…

Well, the questions has been asked by many, where the heck have I been? I’ve been here. Nope, I haven’t been traveling or anything. I don’t have exciting news or fun adventures to talk about. I’ve been at home enjoying the brief calm before the storm (aka August and September, they’re going to be brutal). I’ve been swimming with Reese in our pool, hitting the gym every day doing my sister Kellee’s weightlifting workout exercises she showed me on her visit out in addition to my Triathlon training. Did I mention I’m doing ANOTHER Triathlon? Yes, I’m crazy, and so very excited to do it with my friend Elena since it will be her first.

In addition to all of that I have also been doing a whole lot of this:

Cooper collage

and this:
Cooper

and some of this:
Shafers
and this:

Lissa and Wally collage

To say that I’ve been spending a lot of time at my computer would be an understatement.

July 16, 2008 Posted by macpeanut | Meghan | | 2 Comments

SmugShot

With the release of the iPhone 3G tomorrow, Apple is also releasing new iPhone/iPod Touch software and the App Store.  Aside from a lot of other cool stuff, iPhones can now have third-party applications on them.  So what does that mean?

Have you ever wished your cell-phone had a whole bunch of other stuff on it, like a tip calculator, a to-do list, etc.?  Wouldn’t it be cool if you could pick and choose from thousands of applications so your phone does what *you* want it do instead of whatever the creators wanted it to do?  Well, Apple solved that problem with the App Store.  Developers can create their own applications and you can easily and quickly get whichever ones you want on your own iPhone.

Use Facebook or Myspace a lot?  Would you like to have an application on your phone to use your accounts?  Have you ever been at an electronics store and wanted to know how highly rated a TV was and how expensive it was online?  Wouldn’t it be cool if you could look them up with a simple application on your phone?  Thankfully, now you can if you have an iPhone.

But the best of all, at least for me, is that now I can take a photo on my phone and send it straight to my favorite online photo sharing service with SmugShot.  I can add captions, keywords, select specific galleries, etc.  And it’s free to download and use.

SmugShot

That’s hot.  And speaking of which, 500+ applications were released today with the new App Store, and guess which app is the hottest right now in the store?

Hot

July 10, 2008 Posted by sheaf | Mark | | 2 Comments

Ch-ch-ch-changes

Things sure are changing around here these days. Just when I start to get comfortable in a routine with Reese we hit a growth spurt or a transition and things change again. Here’s what’s new:

* Reese stood for the first time yesterday for over a minute without holding onto anything. Of course I placed her on her feet and gave her something (my iPhone) to hold so she would be distracted from trying to sit down immediately, which is what she usually does. She is definitely in no hurry to start stomping along on her own though, so I think we’ve got awhile before Reese will really be a “toddler”.

* Reese has always been a pretty good eater with finger foods and I was just starting to count my lucky stars that she seemed to eat any fruit or veggie I dared put in front of her (did I ever mention that she doesn’t have any interest in eating grain products like bread, crackers, or even cheerios?) Dum Dum Dum…

The picky eating stage has set in. I had hoped it would never happen to my sweet girl, but it has. Foods that she would once stuff with both hands into her mouth at alarming rates now gets thrown off her tray in disgust. I am beside myself trying to figure out what to feed this child. She can’t live on fruit alone! So far the winning foods are: bananas, watermelon, peaches, peas, avacados, raisins, toast and almost any other member of the fruit family. The losers include: scrambled eggs, PB&J sandwiches, veggie patties, spaghetti, pasta, cheerios, beans, and the list goes on…The worst is that sometimes she will scarf something I make the first time, so I get all excited that I have found something new she will eat, then she won’t ever eat that meal again.

I’m frustrated.

*We are also going through some really rough sleep issues. Reese has been weird about naps for about 2 weeks now. She will go down for a morning nap and act tired when I put her down for her afternoon nap but then she just cries the whole time. Or she won’t take her morning nap and then she is so tired by the time her afternoon nap rolls around she won’t sleep.

So I figured she is ready to go down to one nap a day right? I thought she was a little young for that, but all the signs were pointing that way. After the last two days I’m pretty sure that’s not the case either. She has been a mess! She is cranky and tired and she cries at the drop of the hat. I don’t know what to do, honestly. Any pieces of advice? I’m pretty sure she’s not teething, and she’s not sick. Argggh!

*Reesey and I are home alot more these days except for our daily outing to the gym. So Reese has had a lot more opportunities to play by herself with her toys. Lately she has been obsessed with taking things out and putting things back into containers. Whether it be laundry, blocks, even shoes. She will sit forever with her bucket and picking up toys and putting them into the bucket one by one, then taking them out and putting them back in again. I love peeking in on her while she’s playing quietly by herself, it’s totally cute.

*Reese is catching onto a few of the baby signs I have been showing her for months. She knows “more” and “all done”, although she still needs to be prompted to use them sometimes instead of whining. She can also show you where her head is and where “mama’s head” is when asked.

* Did I mention the whining? Yes, there is a lot of whining these days. I think the babe is a bit frustrated that she can’t tell us what she wants. It’s annoying. When she wants what I’m eating/holding/using, she whines. When she wants me to pick her up she throws herself at my legs, and she whines. When she wants more food on her tray, she whines.

My ears hurt.

Things they be a-changin’. Some things for the better, umm…we’ll work on the rest.

July 3, 2008 Posted by macpeanut | Meghan | | No Comments

100 Truths

This is a list that has taken me a few days to write. My sister-in-law wrote one, and I was truly moved by some of the things she shared that I never knew about her. I have been doing some deep reflection ever since because there are things about myself that I don’t like, but that I can’t or won’t change. This is who I am. I can’t apologize for that. It’s hard to share some of the things you don’t like about yourself, or some of the things you wish were different. I am not where I want to be. But maybe by facing these truths I will be able to work on these things and become the person I want to be.

I encourage you to write your own list. You never know what you might discover about yourself.
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June 28, 2008 Posted by macpeanut | Meghan | | 7 Comments

Losing a sister, but gaining a…Zank?

My little sister is getting married. It’s strange. For 4 years now my older sister and I have been the only siblings in my family who are married. It wasn’t weird for me to see by older sister get married, it just seems like what older sisters do. But having my younger sister get married is a bit weird for me. In my mind she is eternally the age she was when I left home-15. And even though consciously I know that she is an adult of 22 now with a career and living away from home, my immediate reaction when I found out she was getting married was “no way, you are far too young”! Ummm, she’s 2 years older than I was when I married Mark. I worry that she hasn’t known him long enough. Ummm, she’s known him just as long as I knew Mark when we got engaged.

I guess I just hate change, even when that change is something that makes my little sister so happy. As you saw in an earlier post, they came to visit us last weekend. It was good for me to see how in love they are, and how happy they make eachother. It has calmed my fears a lot. I still hate to let go of my little sister, but I have to remember that I’m not losing a sister, I’m gaining a fun bother-in-law.

K&J

K&J

K&J

K&J

K&J

K&J

K&J

June 28, 2008 Posted by macpeanut | Meghan | | 2 Comments

Can you say busy?

While I am thrilled that my photography business is taking flight, it has also taken on a life of it’s own it seems. June has been pretty hectic so far with two engagement shoots alone this last week. I’m up to my ears in photos to edit for the two happy couples and an on a pretty tight deadline so they can send out initiations. It’s been crazy, but so worth it. Photography is something that completes me. I love it. I don’t know what I would do if it were not a part of my life.

One cute bride-to-be is my sweet sister Kellee who you may remember from this post last year. She and her fiance Jared came play with us this weekend and get in some engagement photos while they were out (which is another post entirely). We had a blast with them and did a bunch of the same things we did last time she visited-a day in San Francisco at Fisherman’s Wharf, a day at the beach in Carmel with Cibo, and some yummy Bay Area cuisine. We also took a bunch of non-engagement photos and played a little bit of Guitar Hero for Mark’s sanity.

Reese did AMAZING this weekend. I was a tad worried about Reese not wanting to let Kellee or Jared hold her without crying and reaching out for me every chance she got. It’s so sad when we are visiting family because she won’t let others play with her or shower her with affection. I desperately want this separation anxiety phase to be over. It’s been over 6 months now and I’m so over it! Anyways, back to this weekend-all my fears about Reese not wanting Kellee or Jared to hold her turned out to be completely unnecessary. She was fine. More than fine, she LOVES her Aunt Kellee and Jared. She also did so well without her afternoon naps both on Friday and Saturday. I was happily surprised (of course we paid for it after K&J left with 3 days of very cranky overtired baby, or maybe she just missed her favorite Aunt and Uncle-to-be?).

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June 25, 2008 Posted by macpeanut | Meghan | | 3 Comments

Family, SmugVault and soccer

Family

My sister-in-law Kellee and her fiancee Jared came to visit us this past weekend.  It was really nice of them to come out, especially since they are busy preparing for their wedding.  Meghan gets a bit lonely living so far from her family.

Unfortunately, I had to work some very late nights last week to ship SmugMug’s new product (more on that later) and I was tired and cranky most of the weekend.  Sorry Kellee and Jared!  The highlight for me though was doing one of my favorite things: a visit to the beach in Carmel.

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June 23, 2008 Posted by sheaf | Mark | | 3 Comments